Basic Hygiene Skills To Teach Your Little Kids

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With young children it can seem easier to manage all hygiene tasks for our children. After all, toddlers and preschoolers tend to dawdle and are oftentimes messy. In the short run, it may be easier, but in the long run doing everything can prevent kids from developing age appropriate self-help and independent living skills.

When kids finally master self-care tasks, it makes life easier for everyone! Don’t you dream of a time when your kids don’t depend on you for everything?!?! When introducing hygiene skills to young children, make sure any needed items are accessible and easy to use. More importantly, don’t forget they are novices so you’ll have to supervise, check their work, and be very patient. Preschoolers can and should learn the following basic hygiene tasks:

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1. Hand Washing

Provide a stable, sturdy stepstool for your child to access the faucet and an easy to pump soap dispenser. Then teach them the mechanics of turning on the water and getting one squirt of soap. Foaming soap tends to be the least messy for small children since it doesn’t drip and seems like “a lot” even with just one squirt. Teach them to wash the top and bottom of their hands as well as between their fingers before rinsing. Finally, teach them to always turn the water off and dry with a nearby towel.

2. Brushing and Flossing Teeth

Once a tooth erupts, you can begin brushing it with a soft toothbrush and a rice size amount of fluoride toothpaste (source, American Academy of Pediatrics). To encourage brushing, allow your older baby or toddler to hold the toothbrush and chew on the bristles. Around age two or three, they can begin learning how to gently brush back and forth before spitting into the sink. An older preschooler will even be able to wet the toothbrush and add toothpaste independently. Individual flossers are a fantastic way to teach young children to floss. They come in fun colors and flavors, and are simple to use.

3. Bathing

Though bath time requires a lot of parental supervision for safety, preschoolers can begin to take care of many bathing tasks themselves. After wetting your child’s hair, teach him to pump shampoo into his hand then rub it on his head until a lather forms. You’ll need to help him rinse, but he can start filling the cup and pouring it on his head. You can also teach your child to wet a mesh sponge then dispense a drop of body wash onto it. Teach him to rub his legs, tummy, arms, backside, and feet before rinsing.brushing teeth and hair

4. Hair Brushing

If your child has a lot of hair, or hair that tangles easily, spritz her hair with detangling spray first. Then, using a wide tooth comb or a “wet brush“, show your child how to start at the bottom of the hair and work up until all tangles are removed. This task will take a lot of practice and time for children to master since it’s difficult for them to reach the top of their head, but it’s worth introducing early.

5. Face Washing

After meals or snacks, show your child how to wipe his mouth using a damp cloth or baby wipe. You can also leave washcloths near the sink and teach him how to dampen the cloth himself.

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As with teaching any new skill to a preschooler, the use of songs can help them remember the necessary steps while making it fun. Check out This Reading Mama for a list of songs related to hygiene and other daily tasks. They are all simple and sung to the tune of other familiar songs. Or, if you’re inclined make up your own as you go! Don’t worry if you lack musical talent, I promise, it’s not necessary. I cannot carry a tune, but my kids all sing my hand washing song when they wash their hands!

Teaching basic hygiene to preschoolers can be frustrating at times, but remember it’s a long term investment and one day you’ll wonder when you last washed your child’s hair.

Amber shawverAmber Shawver and her husband, George, are the proud parents of girl-boy-girl-boy quadruplets who debuted in 2012. In an effort to maintain professional skills and a stitch of sanity, Amber continues to practice school psychology part-time.  She finds that her professional training and experience are often handy managing the quads at home. In her spare time, Amber chronicles life raising quadruplets on her blog, Four to Adore. You’ll also find Four to Adore on Facebook, Twitter, and Pinterest. For more articles by Amber on Twiniversity, click here.

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