The Second Year with Twins 19 Months Old

Last updated on March 11th, 2024 at 12:55 pm

Learn what to expect with your infant twins 19 months old, including tips, tricks, and advice from real twin parents who have been there.

All content on this website, including medical opinion and any other health-related information, is for informational purposes only and should not be considered to be a specific diagnosis or treatment plan for any individual situation. Use of this site and the information contained herein does not create a doctor-patient relationship. Always seek the direct advice of your own doctor in connection with any questions or issues you may have regarding your own health or the health of others.

Your Twins 19 Months Old

Welcome back returning twin parents! Hello and welcome to the new twin parents who are just finding us today!

You made it through your first 18 months as a twin parent and you’re now heading into your 19th month of twin parenthood. What a huge accomplishment! Little known secret: we knew you could do it!

Now what? Well, this is a good place to start. We have plenty of information and resources to help you navigate twin parenting with your twins 19 months old.

Our twin parenting tips come from our very own experienced twin parents from around the world! These parents have all been there, done that, and are ready to share their tips and tricks with you.

This second year is full of excitement, questions, and even some anxiety. Not to worry, we’ve got your back. We’ve laid out all our best tips, tricks, and advice for twins 19 months old.

Got preemies? Make sure to consider your premature twins’ corrected age when reviewing whether or not they are meeting their milestones at appropriate times. In the vast majority of cases, preemies catch up by school-age and go on to succeed at the same level as their peers. Learn more about preemie developmental milestones here

What to Expect with Twins 19 Months Old

• Your twinnies are now able to open cabinets, climb stairs or grab something off the table. 
• At this stage, some kids may be chattering away while others have fewer words in their verbal repertoire. Try not to worry or compare your toddler’s communication skills with other children the same age. 
• Toddlers should play with their food, to an extent — but you don’t have to let the food fly where it may.
• Even though your child’s desire to be the centre of attention will have reduced, it still makes an appearance now and then.
• Your twinnies may be ready to start tackling those first steps — on the staircase, that is. At this age, tots lead with one foot to climb each step, and will need to hold on to a hand or railing on the way up.
• By this age, most toddlers can get by with just an afternoon snooze, but that doesn’t mean he won’t be sleepier (and crankier) than usual while he adjusts to the new sleeping schedule.
• Toddlers need about 11 to 14 hours of sleep a day, including naptime. Around this stage, many twinnies have dropped the morning nap and transitioned to one afternoon nap, sleeping for about one-and-a-half to two-and-a-half hours.
• Thanks to temper tantrums during this phase of development of a child, almost every parent wants their child to follow discipline and be disciplined to such an extent, that they sometimes get too anxious and even get frustrated about it.
• If you haven’t already, look into joining a local moms of multiples club (aka twin club). Read about local twin clubs here or join our Twiniversity monthly twin club on Zoom by signing up for a Twiniversity Membership.

Common Concerns From the Moms Who Have Been There With Twins 19 Months Old

• How delayed is too delayed when it comes to twins and language?
• How can we cut costs with twins?
• How do I deal with double tantrums?
• How to deal with biting?
• What can I do to encourage my twins to share?

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Milestones & Developmental Leaps Parents Have Noticed With Twins 19 Months Old

What’s going on with development in twins 19 months old?

• Your twinnies ability to grip objects and toys would’ve developed considerably.
• Can climb up stairs holding the rails or the side of the wall. They may sometimes be only to crawl up the stairs, which is normal at this stage.
• Can run unaided for a short distance without tripping.
• May be able to turn a door knob and twist the cap of a pen or bottle.
• Will try to wash hands on their own.
• Can put their toys in a basket, keep it or push it to its designated place or dump out.
• The first memories of your twinnies could be formed at this age.
• Will turn the tip of a marker or a pen towards the paper even if you hand it upside down.
• Can makes small decisions for themselves and go with them independently.
• Can stack 3 or more blocks on top of each other.
• Understands and follows simple instructions like “Keep it down” and “Do not touch that”, etc.
• Will try imitating what you say or do.

Inform your doctor if your child:

• Doesn’t point to show things to others
• Can’t walk
• Doesn’t know what familiar things are for
• Doesn’t copy others
• Doesn’t gain new words
• Doesn’t have at least 6 words
• Doesn’t notice or mind when a caregiver leaves or returns
• Loses skills they once had

Challenges You Might Experience With Twins 19 Months Old

There are some challenges to look out for with twins 19 months old

• This is often around the time that your twins may begin fighting over toys and even you! Learn how to encourage your twins to sharing here
• Twins escaping the cribs? It might be time to move to a bed. Read about making the switch.
• Struggling with tantrums? They are no fun! Here’s tips to handle them.
• Are your twins biting? This is a common complaint around this time. Read more about how to deal with biting here

Tips from Parents of Twins 19 Months Old

Take some tips from experienced twin parents!

1. Give simple choices. Let your twinnies choose between two things. For example, when dressing, ask them if they want to wear the red or blue shirt.
2. Expect tantrums. They are normal at this age and should become shorter and happen less often as your twins get older. 
3. Play with your twinnies by rolling balls back and forth, pushing toy cars, and putting blocks or other items in and out of containers.
4. Use positive words and give more attention to behaviors you want to see. Give less attention to those you don’t want to see.
5. Encourage “pretend” play. Ex. Give your twinnies a spoon so they can pretend to feed her stuffed animal. Take turns pretending.
6. Take more pictures than you think you should. They will LOVE to look at them with you soon!

Feeding and Nap Schedule for Twins 19 Months Old

You’re really going to want a schedule for your twins! Be adaptable, but try to be as consistent as you can. Here is a suggested feeding and nap schedule for twins 19 months old. You will notice that milk is primarily given in addition to a meal, not used as a meal itself now.

• 7:00 am — Wake up time!
• 7:30 am — Breakfast with Milk
• 8:00 am – Playtime 
• 9:30 am — Snack Time
• 11:45 am — Lunch with Milk
• 12:30 pm — Quiet Time before Nap Time
• 12:45 pm — Lights out for Afternoon Nap
• 3:15 pm — Wake up from nap
• 3:30 pm — Light Snack
• 3:45 pm — Playtime
• 5:30 pm — Dinner
• 6:30 pm — Bath and Bedtime Routine
• 7:30 pm — Lights Out

Do the best you can every day to keep them on the same feeding and sleeping schedule. When you get off track try again for the next feeding or nap.

Do everything in your power to feed your twins together to make sure you get breaks. If they are on opposite feeding schedules, you will never get a break — and you deserve one!

When to Call the Doctor

It’s better to overreact 100% of the time than to underreact once.

Natalie Diaz, Twiniversity Founder and Mom of Twins

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All content on this website, including medical opinion and any other health-related information, is for informational purposes only and should not be considered to be a specific diagnosis or treatment plan for any individual situation. Use of this site and the information contained herein does not create a doctor-patient relationship. Always seek the direct advice of your own doctor in connection with any questions or issues you may have regarding your own health or the health of others.

When it comes to calling your doctor or seeking medical advice, you have to learn to trust yourself. If you feel something isn’t right, it probably isn’t when it comes to your twins. When in doubt, call. That’s why the offices have an answering service and staff on call at night or on the weekends.

That being said, there are a few guidelines to follow. There are a few circumstances under which you should call your doctor and get medical advice, or even call 911. When you call you should have a pen and paper handy and be prepared to give the following information over the phone:

• Immunization records
• Any medications, dosages, and times last taken (even over the counter drugs)
• Medical history
• Your baby’s temperature
• Mention that the baby is a twin, in case of a contagious illness

Any time you see the following symptoms with your twins you should contact your pediatrician immediately.

• Blood in vomit 
• Blood in stool
• Seizure
• Suspected poisoning
• Bleeding you cannot stop
• Unable to move
• Limpness
• A rectal temperature of 100.4 or above
• Sleeps more than usual or will not wake up
• Yellow skin or eyes

Call your doctor as soon as possible if one or both of your twins experiences any of the following.

• Refusal to eat for multiple feedings in a row
• Diarrhea or vomiting 
• A cold that will not resolve itself or gets worse
• Unexplained rash
• Signs of dehydration (no tears, no wet diapers, sunken eyes, sunken soft spot)
• Ear drainage
• Will not stop crying

When to Call 911

Please note that when you call 911, you and your baby will be taken to the nearest emergency room. This may or may not be located at your preferred hospital.

• Your baby is turning blue or taking more than 60 breaths per minute
• Your baby has a seizure which lasts more than 3 minutes or you cannot reach their doctor by phone immediately
• Suffers from convulsions, unconsciousness, or irregular breathing following a fall or from bleeding
• You think your baby may have a skull, neck, back, or pelvic fracture (DON’T move your baby)
• Your baby suffers from a compound fracture where bone is sticking out from the skin (cover it with a clean cloth and do not touch it)
• Your baby has bleeding you cannot stop after applying pressure for 10 minutes

Again, learn to trust your gut.  When in doubt, call and see what your doctor thinks.  Believe it or not, they’re happy to help.

What You Should Read for Twins 19 Months Old

• 5 Tips If Your Child Has A Food Allergy
• Tips to Deal With a Picky Eater
• 7 Picture Books Sure to Make Your Twins Smile
• 5 Tips to Deal With Twins Fighting
• Creating a Daily Schedule for Twin Toddlers

Sources

• Dr. Ilona Bendefy, Baby: Day by Day
• Dr. Frans X. Plooij and Dr. Hetty van de Rijt, The Wonder Weeks
• Marple, Kate, and Dawn Rosenberg. “When to Call 911: How to Tell If Your Baby Needs Emergency Care.” BabyCenter 
• “Newborn Baby: When to Call the Doctor.” Cleveland Clinic
• “How Often and How Much Should Your Baby Eat?” HealthyChildren.org
• “Your 19-Month-Old Child.” What to Expect
• 19 Month Old Baby Development Milestones